The point is that you the ladies have completely missed the import of this injunction totally All that was The it was in fact for the men to complain not for ladies because Islam says that during the period of childhood up to nine years it is the prior right of ladies to have the children and Not of men and After that period it is The choice of the boys and girls themselves to choose where they work.
They have to go No, no, just listen what I am telling you listen with with Attention because I’m telling you a way out of this situation with which you find yourself compelled After Till nine years The court can give children forcibly to the ladies unless there are certain objections Raised by men that they can’t bring them up properly because of religious differences because of immoral habits and so many things may happen but otherwise till nine years of age Children have the right to be brought up by their mothers Now if mothers have this priority It is impossible for those children to have greater lean leaning towards their fathers than to the mothers later on and even if between 9 and 12 They are given the right, I mean the parents are given the preference.
I’m sorry the the fathers are given the preference the period of this just three years is not as strongly impressionable as the period which has passed before and they have been brought up under the mother’s care and After there after that they are free When they reach the adulthood then no law can compel them to be anywhere They can choose to go either to their mother or to father So there is not at all anything wrong with the pair with the mothers in fact as we call it In Punjabi we say, it’s a limit. If it’s a limit, then it’s a man’s problem If somebody has been deprived it is man not woman.
