This question actually is on behalf of my wife, she says she is too shy to ask you this, so she asked me to. Recently she has heard in some lectures that Hazrat Naseem was married before, he was married to Hazrat Ahmad Shah, and he had two sons from that marriage. What she wants to know is this, why was it that over this period of time, apart from the fact that her family were not inclined towards Ahmadiyyat, why was not he able to influence her?
Because he must have had a good relationship with her, because he was himself such a noble person. You know that was even before he claimed to be, or he was appointed by Allah as Imam Mahdi and Naseem, they had already separated, and in those days it was a tradition, particularly with certain families, that the wives would insist that they don’t want a divorce, and yet they would forgive the rights to the husband, you know, by understanding that you don’t come to us and let us live separately if you are ready, but we don’t want divorce, it’s to the advantage of the lady, or it was to the advantage of the lady, and it was on her own request that this understanding was reached.
So some sort of loose arrangement of that nature was reached between Naseem and his wife, even before he was appointed by Allah. So in that, the children were also being looked after by her, and she was not at all under the influence of Naseem or they would never have reached this arrangement anyway. So this is why the children also were brought up under the non-Ahmadi influence, and she got separated mainly because she was not religious.
That was the main reason. So an irreligious wife who chooses to live separately from her husband would naturally influence her children in the same way. And because Naseem was too kind to ask for the children, although legally he had every right, he could insist, but he was too kind to hurt the wife in any way. And also perhaps because he was so busy attending to religious affairs that he never insisted on the children being brought up under his instruction. That is how it came about.
